What is Anger and How to Overcome it

  • Your partner, children or friends, say or do things that you don’t like.
  • You want to make yourself a cup of coffee, but discover that you ran out of coffee.
  • You arrive late to the station, and find that the train has already left.
  • You need to talk to someone, whom you do not like.
  • Your plans might not turn out as you wish they would.
  1. When you feel uncomfortable and unhappy, stop what you are doing and visualize a pleasant mental scene from the past. Think of something that made you happy.
  2. When you feel that you are getting angry, breathe a few deep breaths. This will delay the anger and calm you down.
  3. Count slowly from one to ten. This will delay your angry reaction and weaken it. You can make this exercise more effective by counting backwards, from ten to one.
  4. During your spare time, think about what anger leads to, and how worthwhile it is to avoid it.
  5. When feeling angry, drink some water. This has a calming effect on the body, emotions and mind.
  6. Strive to be as patient as you can in your day-to-day life. As you become more patient, you will be slower to anger
  7. One of the best remedies to anger is emotional detachment. When you are emotionally detached you stop taking things personally, stop being effected by what people say or do, and you can more easily avoid getting angry.
  8. Another way to avoid anger is to develop the habit of peace of mind. This requires some training, but is most worthwhile skill.



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Abhijeet Srivastav

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